tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879690231462568727.post9200729042663290292..comments2023-10-06T11:56:11.987-04:00Comments on Family Rocks: The Life of Peg: JudgementsPeghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02162890081910497200noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879690231462568727.post-69768932704557728222011-04-06T09:32:50.412-04:002011-04-06T09:32:50.412-04:00I hope that you can try not to judge yourself for ...I hope that you can try not to judge yourself for letting events take their course, rather than insisting on a more sensible solution and precipitating a major family feud at exactly the time that you all needed to be presenting a united front to the girls. You did the best that you could, as you continue to do every day. I'm sorry that your siblings and parents have been so unsupportive.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02747382929049494704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879690231462568727.post-3065025735206443562011-04-06T09:17:30.130-04:002011-04-06T09:17:30.130-04:00I tell you what, after losing Hannah, I can honest...I tell you what, after losing Hannah, I can honestly say, I am nonjudgmental about most parenting I see these days. The truth is, we're all desperately trying to do the best we can. Are there a few out there I still find myself judging? Unfortunately, yes, and I feel guilty about it. <br /><br />That said, I live in fear of my mother's judgement of my parenting. Oh heck, I fear my in-laws' as well. I am doing the absolute best *I* can and want that to be recognized. I can certainly understand your upset over your family's judgments. You are living in a very difficult situation and I'm so sorry for that.Rachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09317328366288947798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5879690231462568727.post-80589930152741868792011-04-05T23:03:15.170-04:002011-04-05T23:03:15.170-04:00So many people are quick to judge parents. I pers...So many people are quick to judge parents. I personally am judgmental about judgmental parents, so I'll have to live with the hypocrisy.<br /><br />It's painful when you know people you love aren't looking approvingly at every parenting decision you make, but it's a no win situation. It's the ultimate example of how you can't please everyone so it's not worth even trying. Make your decisions from a loving place, trust your mind and your gut, and try to block out the rest to stay sane.Korinthiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15580286551375780490noreply@blogger.com